100 CANDLES

Greetings for the New Year, dear eFriends!

Thank you so much for all your notes and thoughts.  My online absence hasn't been due to some cosmic chasm.  Blame my cephalopod way of life (and sorry for referencing myself -- smacks of geriatric reminiscing) with multiple projects reaching in all directions. There must be some sensible name for this chronic condition?

Happy New Year!
Also celebrating my Grandmère's 100th birthday from afar.
I missed the grand family reunion in Asia
so we sent a video greeting instead.

The holidays were an opportunity to reconnect with family and old friends from around the world.  Too much to tell you.  Recent life has resembled a merry innkeeper's.  We've been welcoming a stream of out-of-town guests at home with just enough time for fresh linens in between.  Our evenings have been marked by live music, good spirits (libation and disposition, both), and interesting discourse!  It's been a marvelous month-and-a-half.

Which brings me to an homage I wanted to make.  My dearest grandmother, Grandmère to us, just turned 100 this week.  Her legendary wit is undimmed though her own memory might be.  Call her the upbeat version of Downton Abbey's Dowager Countess -- barbs not meant to cut but rather to induce laughter!  Her biggest accessory is a broad smile (and perhaps, huge dark glasses).

I find the sweater's asymmetric hemline -
short in front, long in the back -
an interesting counterpoint
to the horizontal stripes

Our Grandmère was the pillar behind our Granddaddy, now gone but a towering public figure for us, whose life was driven by principles of integrity and civic duty.  (Meritocracy and anti-Nepotism were indelibly imprinted in us through them ...  Pardon me but big words tend to surface whenever we think of our grandparents.)  We are so proud that my grandmother and her sisters earned their Bachelors of Science back in the '30s, at a time and place when few women were encouraged to do so.  Their role model?  Florence Nightingale (whom many may not know was a gifted mathematician)!  Emulating the Lady with the Lamp, they believed intellectual gifts were meant to be bundled with public service - all tied up with ribbons of gaiety and song for the loveliest of packages.  

My grandparents also believed in a simple life beyond reproach.  I still recall their insistence on receiving gifts only from family and close friends lest anything be considered a bribe, or worse, turn out to be a bomb!  (Trojan horses come in all shapes and sizes.)  Coming from a country cleft by poverty and antiquated rules of Class, they wanted no part in a lavish lifestyle which could be misinterpreted.

So here I am, beginning 2013 in my comfortable, "everyday" clothes of sweater dresses and jeans, accessorized only with large sunglasses and a smile - just like my dear Grandmère.

Wishing you all a wonderful start to the year!

LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL

'Tis the season to be Thankful.

So, this Thanksgiving,  I thought to acknowledge someone here who provides day-to-day inspiration to many.  This post is about Virginia.  She is an artist, model, ballet dancer, intellectual, and a force behind the Arts in the Bay Area.  More than that, she is a dear friend and an amazing lady with a wicked sense of humor! We met up for brunch early in the fall where she kindly shared her art gallery-home and photo albums with me.

(She agreed to have me publish this.  Errors in details or chronology are mine. I simply strung together stories shared with me.)

Virginia back in her modeling days in the '50s
from her photo album

Virginia Now

Soon after we moved to California, I encountered Virginia at one of the ballet studios and was simply stunned. Here was a lady doing everything we were doing -- but she was in her mid-80s! As you can see from this advertisement (a few years old), she still displayed strength and artistry. In fact, ballet studios in the Bay Area were angling for her to be their "Adult Class" spokesmodel. Even more astonishing, she had taken up ballet quite late -- at 40 years old!  It turns out, Ballet had contributed to rebuilding her life after her divorce. I sense she had a natural aptitude for it though. Her old, modeling photos positively exude poise and grace.

Ballet schools around the Bay Area
were fighting to get Virginia as their "adult class" model
Her advanced age was such an inspiration

My admiration deepened as I got to know her.  Here was someone who knew how to live life -- infusing it with art, intellect, beauty and a dry sense of humor.  Age had done nothing to diminish her passions.  If anything, she had finally grown into herself.

Back Then
Her youth was spent in the corn fields of Oklahoma. She claimed to be on the shy side (you wouldn't know it now) but with innate talent.  Fortunately, the vibrant cultural environment at Stillwater University, now Oklahoma State, introduced her to world class artists, including Russian ballet dancers on tour across the United States.

Young Virginia as an art student
at U.C. Berkeley
Shy as she was, you can see
her strong personality from these photos.

Portrait of the Artist as a Young Lady
I really liked the one of Virginia at her easel!

The Intellectual Salon
An art scholarship propelled her towards the University of California at Berkeley.  There, she was thrown into the California renaissance of the Beat Generation.  Yes, that spirited circle of Allen Ginsberg, Jack Kerouac and others!  Their Throckmorton Manor gatherings in Berkeley were filled with musicians, artists, writers & poets, and good champagne!  If you loved the nocturnal salons of "Midnight in Paris," she actually lived it (different era though!).

Virginia's hand-drawn, hand-written invitation
to their  Throckmorton Manor party.
The Manor was torn down decades later

Examples of fabulous Throckmorton parties
at Berkeley University.
Streetstyle photographers would have had a blast!

Modeling for a Living
Funding fabulous gatherings on a scholarship wasn't cheap.  Enter Modeling.  Gigs for magazines and papers were an easy way to supplement her stipend.  Wryly, she observed that most of the models she encountered were uninteresting (can't compete with that Beat social circle) and had poor skin (ah, the power of pancake make-up ...)!

One of her earliest modeling jobs was for ladies' underwear.  We had a laugh over this one.

One of Virginia's earliest shoots.
She quips this is how her husband first saw her.

An American in Paris, Munich, London ...
Graduate school beckoned and her printmaking art secured her a Fulbright Scholarship to Munich.  At the same time, her husband, whom she had met in Berkeley, also won a Fulbright Scholarship for a doctorate at Cambridge University.  Thus began their over-the-Channel relationship.  London modeling shoots were handy excuses for meet-ups.  Virginia recounts chilly outdoor shoots with chattering teeth momentarily suspended by smiles for the cameras!

Virginia on a yacht modeling shoot

Virginia's fashion spread for an English magazine

Bumps on the Road
It seemed she and her husband were better friends & flatmates than married to each other.  Virginia eventually divorced her husband several years after their son was born.  Her ex-husband went on to a successful career and founded a publicly listed company still trading today. They were not estranged, but she finally began to build her own identity.  She forged on, continuing her artistic career -- teaching Art, starting a gallery & business, trying new things like Ballet.  Through it all, she raised their son herself.  As time went by, she also survived bouts with cancer, broken bones from falls (as recently as 2 years ago), and other personal and physical challenges.  But as long as I've known her, she's been a trouper and fighter!

Sperling Gallery
Sometime after her divorce, she began Sperling Gallery.  She put new artists on the map in Bay Area museums, such as The Triton, and as far East as New York art galleries.  To this day, she provides art consulting services to institutions.

Virginia at home, where she stores the gallery artwork

So much great artwork, some of them simply stacked on the floor

Practically every inch of her house is covered in original artwork.  They are on the walls or on the floor.  It was really cool walking around!

This is one of her popular artists, sold and displayed
in the Bay Area and galleries in NYC
I liked how the shadows of the sculpture play right into the shadows in the paintings

Life is Beautiful

This spirited lady just celebrated another birthday last week.  Solidly in her mid-80s now, perhaps even late 80s --  the exact years are a mystery!  She continues to be a regular, much more than I am, at the ballet studios.  (We all aspire to move half as well as she decades hence.)  She is ever the purveyor of fine champagnes at gatherings and is equally effervescent company.  And, she continues to dazzle us with her elegance and gorgeous evening wardrobe -- her velvets and fur-trimmed jackets are enviable!

Ever the gracious hostess
Virginia laid out a champagne spread for me at 10 am!

I told her I would post this homage this week.  She doesn't use the computer and the Thanksgiving holiday was an opportunity for her to ask her son for help on the Web.   I hope she is able to see this!

Do you have real-life friends of any age who inspire you?  Who are you thankful for?

Wishing you and your loved ones a Happy Thanksgiving.

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Note on photos:
My shots here are all hurried snapshots.  My husband had previously berated my tendency to ignore friends or family around me when I was being a "photographer".  I have since promised that, in company, I will refrain from lengthy framings and stay with the conversation!  So, please excuse any strange angles ;-)

TEA WITH MARMALADE

This past half year of blogging, I have had the greatest privilege of meeting talented, creative people from all over the world.  Many have been daily inspirations.  More than that, they are virtual friends.

As promised in my last post, I am sharing one of these friend/inspirations.  You may all have met her already from her own edgily creative blog, MARMALADE.  If you haven't, I would love for you all to meet Victoria.  We meet up here for virtual tea where she has kindly let me interview her for all our benefit.

(all photos taken by Victoria, previously posted on her blog, and selected to display her artistic range)

TFA:  What is your artistic background?
Victoria: 


The problem with me is that I have always been a Jack-of-all-trades. I don't think this is a good thing but it is true. I have memories of me making clothes for my dolls, going to painting classes etc. at the age of 9 years old. I started studying Industrial design in Mexico but left to study Art in London.  Then, I did a few courses in fashion too. I've worked as a florist, fashion sales assistant, visual merchandiser, opened my own shop and my last job was in an I.T. company. I have always known I wanted to do something creative, mainly, because deep in my heart, I know I'm rubbish at anything else. I have tried other trades but I believe you can't ever be the best at something that you are not passionate enough about.

TFA:  What is your favorite medium?  Why?

Victoria: 

This is my old, same battle.  So many times, I've wanted to focus on one thing, but I found it almost impossible. I truly love everything that involves creativity.  Some days, I feel like taking photos.  Other days, I feel like painting or designing something. I get bored of just doing one thing. I like to have different mediums of expression.

TFA:  Who or what are your favorite sources of inspiration?

Victoria: 

Frida Kahlo, Ellen Rogers, Deborah Turbeville, Francesca Woodman, Allison Scarpulla, Basquiat, Francis Bacon, David Bowie, Coco Chanel, Simone de Beauvoir, Edgar Allan Poe, Paul Auster, Albert Camus, Tim Burton, Katharine Hepburn, Iamamiwhoami, Just to mention a few.

TFA:  Why did you begin your blog?

Victoria: 

Out of desperation because I was not doing anything creative and I was depressed. I thought it could be a start to build myself again.

TFA:  Do you have hobbies, even non-artistic ones?

Victoria: 

Cooking.  For me cooking is another way of been creative.  I love trying new food, new spices, herbs. I also love listening music.  I do it all day. It helps my ideas to flow. I also love reading.

TFA:  Thank you, Victoria, for sharing yourself and your creativity with us.  I am so glad you began Marmalade!

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Perhaps you'll understand now why I admire Victoria's edgy aesthetic. It seems to reach for every point on the artistic sphere -- like a robust wheel's spokes radiating in diverse creative directions.  It would be no surprise to see additional spokes in the future either.   (Prior to this interview, I didn't even know she made sculptures!)  What a terrific list of inspirations as well -- all fascinating, talented people.

I hope to share more wonderful Bloggers here on this space next year.  Whom do you admire on the Blog-o-sphere?